When I meet new people I like to find out as much as I can about them but two things I shy away from.
Religious Beliefs and Political stance
Yes, some things do define you but I don't think who you vote for does. As far as what you believe?
Believe what you want, just don't try to make me believe it PLEASE!
Out of respect for my work environment and making my money, I don't care what you do outside of work just do your job while your in the work right?
I bring this up because recently religion and politics have come up in a few of my everyday conversations. I usually stay quite on my thoughts, say your remarks on how Obama sucks, or Mitt is stupid etc. I just don't want to form any opinion about you, based on how you feel about the president.
The very first time I got to vote was in the 2008 election. I felt like I was finally doing something amazing, I followed every drop of political news I could get my 17 year old hands on (My birthday is November 2 so I registered yearly to meet that November 4th deadline)
I registered people to vote, It was a big deal for me, and it still is. All I really want is for people to vote. I feel you have no right to say SHIT! UNLESS you go to the polls and vote. Read about your political parties and what they all stand for, Do your own research. Just because your parents are one thing doesn't mean you are!? *Steps off Soap Box*
My next door neighbor "Uncle Mark" as I have come to call him, is a republican, die hard (If you ask me) But this man in very nice and my Dad who is Green Party (I no nothing about them) have a great working relationship. because they still help each other. Uncle Mark takes me to work at times we have BBQs together and his wife feeds me too. My mother, who is a demarcate, a afraid to tell you that either. What a great blind of people right? Now ask me about my own friends? I have no Idea, I'd know their religion before I would know that.
See I base my interaction with people, by 1. how much we have in common 2. how much space you let me have. 3. Your own personality.
Let me break if further down for you.
1. I can't pretend to have anything in common with you, We can best of friends and only have one thing in common (I've done it, I know it works). I can learn from you, and if you teaching me something is what we have in common then Hell that's cool too.
-I got a friend in Chicago, that me and her would have movie nights. That is all we did was watch movies together. would see each other for a month or two and then get together to watch 2-3 movies. that is how we functioned. We went out to a club once but other then that, movies, movies and more movies
2. This might sound surprising but, Yes I am totally fine not talking to people, or going places with them. I really do like being alone at times. (I'm sleep 80% of this time but hey either way, it my time) Now, I am surprised I do have friends, I do not make a HUGE effort to keep in touched with people. that's only partly my fault (Other fault belongs to my personality). In my head I believe have all this stuff going on, when actually I'm just keeping to myself, and having of a very bad case of procrastination...
3. Look, I try to be very welcoming to any and everyone. I think I'm a warm and fuzzy person (Well I really like fuzzy things. haha) and Well sometimes being friends with everyone doesn't always happen. Some can't handle me being touchy but, you can't touch me. Or, not seeing or talking to you for months and when we do see each other is like no day has gone by. (Yes I am notorious for having relationships like this). I can't help being 'That Girl"
Religion and Politics don't factor into this, I'm sorry. I can't help that I feel slightly uncomfortable with this.
My belief on religion is...Yea, I don'r know because I prefer to be a spiritual person with gospel music playing in the background. If I was the head of church all we would do is sing, and listen to music...yep and church would be over in about an hour. I am a bit more open about hearing about others belief BUT don't you dare try to make me feel like I am living wrong in anyway. Yes I did lie to my parents about going church Let me explain.
Freshmen Year of College 2009
- I called home and told my mom that I really wanted to come. No questions asked my mommy and daddy came and got me. (Teenage crushes are so hard to handle at 18 sometimes.) While on the way home, my parents asked me "Have you been to church since you been in Chicago?" and without hesitation I said "No. I'm still looking" LIES! and they knew it was a lie. and after my weekend visit was over, and I got back to my dorm, I told them the truth that I wasn't really looking for a church. I wasn't ready to make that "commitment" yet. We all have to find faith our own way.
This is where I leave my thoughts for now on the subject. Yes they are not fully expressed I guess, but lets face it, I can talk about this until I'm blue in the face and die. and no one would give two shits about what I said and just go on with their lives, right? yep. Damn Humans.